BDSM for Writers by Dr. Charley Ferrer

This book was created for writers to understand the nuances of the BDSM world and see beyond what Hollywood and the media have portrayed it to be.

I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. 

What I Liked:

The breakdown of the book made it easy to understand. As a hopeful writer, I want to create characters that are authentic and this book helped me a great deal. The psychology behind BDSM, power exchanges, equipment and more, this is an excellent book to have in your arsenal to make sure what you are writing about is correct. Like her book, BDSM: The Naked Truth, there is a writer's checklist to make sure your characters all have the right information on hand. All the foundations you need to craft a book that has the truth about BDSM relationships can be found here.

What I Didn't:

I wanted the book to go on forever but alas...everything good must come to an end. A few typos here and there, but the information was so engrossing, I barely noticed.

Overall:

Dr. Charley has crafted a wonderful tool for writers, that for me has been invaluable. I feel like I have a better grasp of what goes on in a club or even behind the scenes where things are most private. I have read many fictional accounts, but it is so helpful to have a resource that is living the life and knows the ins and outs, so to speak.  I read this book practically cover to cover and then started her sister companion, which is very similar. Recommended by Cari Silverwood, these books show the love and devotion that can be found within the relationships in the BDSM world and shine past all the misconceptions. I am so glad for the recommendation and have found much useful information in both of them.

5/5

Join world-renowned Clinical Sexologist Dr. Charley Ferrer as she pulls back the leather curtain to reveal the truths about love, affection, and the respect shared by men and women who embrace the uniquely erotic lifestyle of Dominance and submission. This book dispels many of the misconceptions Hollywood and the media have propagated, giving the reader a realistic view of the intricacies of the power exchange and the rich, intense relationships formed by men and women who embrace this lifestyle. BDSM: The Naked Truth provides information every novice or curious seeker needs to know and understand while validating and acknowledging the experiences and various levels of connection and relationships within the community. Also included are the integral truths, techniques and foundation necessary to train a slave, the benefits and pitfalls of rewards and punishment, and the various methods of how to use punishment and humiliation on a submissive or slave to derive optimum results. As a bonus, there’s a BDSM Checklist specifically designed to help uncover one’s deliciously wicked truths. You might be surprised to discover there’s already a little taste of the power exchange in your relationships.

DR. CHARLEY FERRER

SEX EXPERT FOR FOX NEWS LATINO

Facts About Dr. Charley Ferrer:

* The ONLY Latina Doctor of Human Sexuality in the United States!

*Sex Expert for Fox News Latino, Telemundo, El Diario La Prensa Newspaper, Fruta Extrana, KISS FM—

       The Michael  Basdien Show, Latino Future Magazine, and Hispanically Speaking News—Chicago

*Recognized as a "Groundbreaking" Latina Leaders of 2006” for her work in the field of Sexology and

       Sexual Health by the National Association for Latina Leaders

* Recognized as a "Groundbreaking" Latina Leaders of 2006” for her work in the field of Sexology and 

       Sexual Health by the National Association for Latina Leaders.

* Author of the Best Self Help Book 2002 -- The W.I.S.E. Journal for the Sensual Woman

* Spoke before the World Congress of Sexology & International Congress 2005, 2006, 2008

*Guest Speaker at ASSECT Convention 2008

*Professor of Psychology & Human Sexuality at Rutgers University 

*Freelance writer with various magazines, newspapers and internet sites

* Deemed “The Latina Dr. Ruth” by various magazines and International newspapers

* Called the Monty Hall of Sex for her ability to provide endless possibilities and solutions to

    relationship and sexual problems

*Keynote Speaker at various Universities & Organizational events

*Conducts workshops/lectures throughout the USA and Latin America on Sexual Health/Education

Television & Radio:

Coming Soon --- SEX CHAT with Dr. Charley  --  LIVE Talk Show

A new talk show conducted live with the public at different locations

Pleasure TV Talk Show first bi-lingual Talk Show on relationships and sexual health hosted by Dr. Charley Ferrer watch it throughout New York City, Manchester NH, or on our website. Nominated for:

 2008 Alliance in Community Media Northeast Regional Award

2007  BEST TV TALK SHOW 2007 by BronxNet

La Hora del Placer – The Pleasure Hour  -- Radio

The FIRST bilingual show on relationships & sexuality—hosted by Dr. Charley Ferrer

*In Oregon -- Radio La X 660am & 1040am   

*In New York City -- RCN Radio 98.7 FM

*In Connecticut (Fairfield County) -- WCUM Radio Cumbre Latino 1450am    

*More radio stations soon…

Newspapers:

Fox News Latino—Health section  www.foxnewslatino.com/health

EL DIARIO LA PRENSA—Video Column www.eldiariony.com

STATEN ISLAND ADVANCE—Relationship section www.statenislandadvance.com

Books by Dr. Charley Ferrer

NEW!  BDSM for Writers

NEW!  BDSM—The Naked Truth

The Latina Kama Sutra -- Nominated for Best Sexuality Book 2006/2007

The W.I.S.E.  Journal for the Sensual Woman -- Awarded Best Self-Help Book 2002

The Passionate Latina:  In Our Own Words

Sex Con Sabor Latina (A play)

In Spanish:

NEW!  La Latina Kama Sutra: El Guía  Absoluto Para Citas, Sexo, y Placeres Eróticos

Para La Mujer Sensual – Best Self-Help Book 2002

New Books Coming soon:

Sexploring:  30-Days to a Better Sex Life

Body & Soul:  An Intimate Look at Black Men's Sexuality

Sex Repairs :  The Quick Fix to Women’s Sexual Problems

The Latin Lover:  The Truth About Religion, Sex, & Machismo  

BDSM FOR WRITERS 3-Day Experiential Workshop

August 17-19, 2012

Authors attending this workshop will:

Understand how to use BDSM psychology and power exchange to create believable and interesting characters

Get the details right in their BDSM scenes

Be able to add sensory details to bring their BDSM scenes alive

The workshop will includes:

·         Education on BDSM  (basics and advance)

·         Psychology of BDSM

·         Criminal Minds & PTSD education

·         Panels on submission and Dominance

·         Panels on Power Exchange relationships and what it entails

·         BDSM equipment review

·         And much more…

Location:    New York City

Hotel:   Warwick Hotel 65 West 54th Street NYC, NY --- Rates online are $204-285 single/double,  Reservations: 212-247-2700  (Note: online rates are cheapest)

http://www.warwickhotels.com   or   http://www.warwickhotelny.com

Transportation to and from Airport:  Use the Super Shuttle (718) 777-5111 which drops you off at the hotel and cost $15 from La Guardia and $23 from JFK. Good idea to make reservations. Or the Yellow Cab Taxis that are about $35.

Cost:               $150  (early registration thru July 1, After $195.)

Publishers:   Editors from Ellora’s Cave and Musa Publishing will provide information on what they're looking for on submissions. Every participant will have 10-15 minutes “Pitch Time” with each editor.  *Bring your ideas and finished works if you have them.*

Instructor:    Dr. Charley Ferrer, world renowned Clinical Sexologist and BDSM Expert as well as various local lifestyle practitioners.

Outtings:   Several outing are planned to local leather shops and workshop related Clubs. 

Bring a friend:  Please feel free to bring a fellow author with you.  Non-author friends can accompany you to the parties for $75. 

Certification:  Certificate of certification will be provided at the end of the workshop!

Whether you’ve been writing D/s stories for years or just picking up the Whip, once you’ve completed this workshop you will have a greater understanding of the emotional and psychological connections individuals make when engaging in this highly erotic and often misunderstood lifestyle.

This is an exclusive one-of-a-kind BDSM workshop specifically geared toward writers’ needs, to help you create believable characters. We’ll also have time to discuss your story ideas and how to make them work. The focus is on D/s relationships and activities not on the dynamics of writing in general. Please share with us any additions to the program you’d like to experience.

Note: Meals, Hotel & Transportation costs to and from workshops, airport, and club are each individual’s responsibility. We will have snacks and beverages available during the day. Any specific needs, please let us know.

Contact us at doctorcharley(at)doctorcharley(dot)com for further information.

Sign up:  http://www.bdsmforwriters.com/Conferences.html

Live with passion,

Doctor Charley…

Dr. Charley Ferrer

Clinical Sexologist, Educator

TV/Radio Host & Producer

Award Winning Author

Sex Expert for Fox News Latino

(718) 916-4124

 www.instituteofpleasure.org