Showing posts with label power exchange. Show all posts
Showing posts with label power exchange. Show all posts

Thursday, December 3, 2015

Say Yes Book Tour #BoundtobeNaughty #AllRomance


Say Yes
JR Gray

Genre: Gay, BDSM, Contemporary

Publisher: ARe Books

Date of Publication: 12/1/15

ISBN: 978-1-943576-56-2
ASIN: TBA

Number of pages: TBA
Word Count: 26,800

Cover Artist: Scott Carpenter

Book Description:

Charles holds the key to salvation, but James has to say yes.

James failed. He tried to be what they wanted. He tried to deny it. He tried to be a good Catholic boy…but it’s become too much. He craves pain, submission. He’s denied himself far too long, and it’s eating him alive.

Charles thrives off the exchange of power. He knows the world revolves around control. It’s given and taken like currency, in business and in pleasure. He won’t get attached, though, or so he tells himself, until James turns his world upside down. He’s defiant and snarky, but Charles can taste the submission on him.

All James has to do is say one little word.

Excerpt:

Charles caught James by the tie and yanked him closer. James stood without a hint of fear. With his reputation, there weren’t many left who didn’t fear him.
“Why don’t you stay?” It had to be voluntary. There was nothing if it wasn’t. Any man could get off on force. He wanted the control freely given. It was so much more erotic.
“Need help putting your dick in your pants?” James’ lips curled up a hint.
“I was thinking more along the lines of help with you on your knees.” He stared at the tie on James’ neck. Charles wanted to string him up with it. It had been a long time since he’d let loose with a man.
“I think I’ll ruin my suit if I kneel in here.” He was witty. Another point in his favor.        
James was quite a bit younger than Charles was, but he made up for it in cocky. His dirty blond hair fell into his eyes, enough for Charles to grab a handful of. Even if he’d never preferred blonds, there was a first time for everything.
“All the more reason not to be wearing it.”
“It’s my job to get you out of your suit, not for you to get me out of mine.” His dark green eyes shone in the low light behind rectangular glasses. He had such a thing for glasses. Charles knew he was being toyed with. It was an unusual sensation for him as he usually did the toying.
“It’s not going to be any work at all for you to get me out of my suit. I think yours will be the challenge.” He undid his belt, and James’ eyes went to his groin. He’d known James was into men. He had a sense for these things.
“You’re not going to get me out of mine.” So cocky. It would be fun to break him of it.
“We seem to be at an impasse.” Charles pulled his belt from his loops and halved it in his hand. He could already see the marks on James’ pale skin.
“It appears so.” He surprised Charles and took the belt from his hands as he stepped past. “This belt looks so worn. Let me find you a stiffer model.” James flashed another smile, showing large canines and a mouth full of gleaming white teeth before he exited the room.
Charles gripped himself. There was only one thing he loved more than submission: having to work for it.
He was going to be late for his date.


Review:

This is my first J. R. Gray read and boy it won't be my last. From snark to sexy in three seconds flat, this author takes romance and turns it on its ear. Well defined characters, dialog that rocks and sexy interaction between Charles and James make this a must read, even for those who may have never read a m/m romance before. Wow. Loved it and will be diving in for more. This is fifty shades of hot and oh my...

5/5



About the Author:

JR Gray, when not staying up all night writing, can be found basking in the warm glow of the Miami sun, or at the gym where it’s half assumed Gray is a permanent resident. A dominant, pilot, and sword fighting enthusiast, Gray finds it hard to be in the passenger seat of any car. Gray frequently interrupts real life, including normal sleep patterns, to jot down nonsense. The bane of Gray’s existence are commas, and even though it’s been fully acknowledged they are necessary, they continue to baffle and bewilder.

If Gray wasn’t writing…well, that’s not possible. The buildup of untold stories would haunt Gray into an early grave or possibly a mental institution where the tales would end up on the walls in crayon and finger paint.

J.R. Gray is Gender Queer and prefers He/Him/His pronouns.

For more information on other books by J.R., visit his website: http://www.jrgraybooks.com





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Saturday, July 21, 2012

BDSM for Writers by Dr. Charley Ferrer


This book was created for writers to understand the nuances of the BDSM world and see beyond what Hollywood and the media have portrayed it to be.



I received this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. 

What I Liked:

The breakdown of the book made it easy to understand. As a hopeful writer, I want to create characters that are authentic and this book helped me a great deal. The psychology behind BDSM, power exchanges, equipment and more, this is an excellent book to have in your arsenal to make sure what you are writing about is correct. Like her book, BDSM: The Naked Truth, there is a writer's checklist to make sure your characters all have the right information on hand. All the foundations you need to craft a book that has the truth about BDSM relationships can be found here.

What I Didn't:

I wanted the book to go on forever but alas...everything good must come to an end. A few typos here and there, but the information was so engrossing, I barely noticed.

Overall:

Dr. Charley has crafted a wonderful tool for writers, that for me has been invaluable. I feel like I have a better grasp of what goes on in a club or even behind the scenes where things are most private. I have read many fictional accounts, but it is so helpful to have a resource that is living the life and knows the ins and outs, so to speak.  I read this book practically cover to cover and then started her sister companion, which is very similar. Recommended by Cari Silverwood, these books show the love and devotion that can be found within the relationships in the BDSM world and shine past all the misconceptions. I am so glad for the recommendation and have found much useful information in both of them.

5/5


Join world-renowned Clinical Sexologist Dr. Charley Ferrer as she pulls back the leather curtain to reveal the truths about love, affection, and the respect shared by men and women who embrace the uniquely erotic lifestyle of Dominance and submission. This book dispels many of the misconceptions Hollywood and the media have propagated, giving the reader a realistic view of the intricacies of the power exchange and the rich, intense relationships formed by men and women who embrace this lifestyle. BDSM: The Naked Truth provides information every novice or curious seeker needs to know and understand while validating and acknowledging the experiences and various levels of connection and relationships within the community. Also included are the integral truths, techniques and foundation necessary to train a slave, the benefits and pitfalls of rewards and punishment, and the various methods of how to use punishment and humiliation on a submissive or slave to derive optimum results. As a bonus, there’s a BDSM Checklist specifically designed to help uncover one’s deliciously wicked truths. You might be surprised to discover there’s already a little taste of the power exchange in your relationships.







DR. CHARLEY FERRER
SEX EXPERT FOR FOX NEWS LATINO

Facts About Dr. Charley Ferrer:
* The ONLY Latina Doctor of Human Sexuality in the United States!
*Sex Expert for Fox News Latino, Telemundo, El Diario La Prensa Newspaper, Fruta Extrana, KISS FM—
       The Michael  Basdien Show, Latino Future Magazine, and Hispanically Speaking News—Chicago
*Recognized as a "Groundbreaking" Latina Leaders of 2006” for her work in the field of Sexology and
       Sexual Health by the National Association for Latina Leaders
* Recognized as a "Groundbreaking" Latina Leaders of 2006” for her work in the field of Sexology and 
       Sexual Health by the National Association for Latina Leaders.
* Author of the Best Self Help Book 2002 -- The W.I.S.E. Journal for the Sensual Woman
* Spoke before the World Congress of Sexology & International Congress 2005, 2006, 2008
*Guest Speaker at ASSECT Convention 2008
*Professor of Psychology & Human Sexuality at Rutgers University 
*Freelance writer with various magazines, newspapers and internet sites
* Deemed “The Latina Dr. Ruth” by various magazines and International newspapers
* Called the Monty Hall of Sex for her ability to provide endless possibilities and solutions to
    relationship and sexual problems
*Keynote Speaker at various Universities & Organizational events
*Conducts workshops/lectures throughout the USA and Latin America on Sexual Health/Education

Television & Radio:
Coming Soon --- SEX CHAT with Dr. Charley  --  LIVE Talk Show
A new talk show conducted live with the public at different locations

Pleasure TV Talk Show first bi-lingual Talk Show on relationships and sexual health hosted by Dr. Charley Ferrer watch it throughout New York City, Manchester NH, or on our website. Nominated for:
 2008 Alliance in Community Media Northeast Regional Award
2007  BEST TV TALK SHOW 2007 by BronxNet

La Hora del Placer – The Pleasure Hour  -- Radio
The FIRST bilingual show on relationships & sexuality—hosted by Dr. Charley Ferrer
*In Oregon -- Radio La X 660am & 1040am   
*In New York City -- RCN Radio 98.7 FM
*In Connecticut (Fairfield County) -- WCUM Radio Cumbre Latino 1450am    
*More radio stations soon…

Newspapers:
Fox News Latino—Health section  www.foxnewslatino.com/health
EL DIARIO LA PRENSA—Video Column www.eldiariony.com
STATEN ISLAND ADVANCE—Relationship section www.statenislandadvance.com

Books by Dr. Charley Ferrer
NEW!  BDSM for Writers
NEW!  BDSM—The Naked Truth
The Latina Kama Sutra -- Nominated for Best Sexuality Book 2006/2007
The W.I.S.E.  Journal for the Sensual Woman -- Awarded Best Self-Help Book 2002
The Passionate Latina:  In Our Own Words
Sex Con Sabor Latina (A play)

In Spanish:
NEW!  La Latina Kama Sutra: El Guía  Absoluto Para Citas, Sexo, y Placeres Eróticos
Para La Mujer Sensual – Best Self-Help Book 2002

New Books Coming soon:
Sexploring:  30-Days to a Better Sex Life
Body & Soul:  An Intimate Look at Black Men's Sexuality
Sex Repairs :  The Quick Fix to Women’s Sexual Problems
The Latin Lover:  The Truth About Religion, Sex, & Machismo  




BDSM FOR WRITERS 3-Day Experiential Workshop
August 17-19, 2012

Authors attending this workshop will:
Understand how to use BDSM psychology and power exchange to create believable and interesting characters
Get the details right in their BDSM scenes
Be able to add sensory details to bring their BDSM scenes alive

The workshop will includes:
·         Education on BDSM  (basics and advance)
·         Psychology of BDSM
·         Criminal Minds & PTSD education
·         Panels on submission and Dominance
·         Panels on Power Exchange relationships and what it entails
·         BDSM equipment review
·         And much more…

Location:    New York City

Hotel:   Warwick Hotel 65 West 54th Street NYC, NY --- Rates online are $204-285 single/double,  Reservations: 212-247-2700  (Note: online rates are cheapest)
http://www.warwickhotels.com   or   http://www.warwickhotelny.com

Transportation to and from Airport:  Use the Super Shuttle (718) 777-5111 which drops you off at the hotel and cost $15 from La Guardia and $23 from JFK. Good idea to make reservations. Or the Yellow Cab Taxis that are about $35.

Cost:               $150  (early registration thru July 1, After $195.)

Publishers:   Editors from Ellora’s Cave and Musa Publishing will provide information on what they're looking for on submissions. Every participant will have 10-15 minutes “Pitch Time” with each editor.  *Bring your ideas and finished works if you have them.*

Instructor:    Dr. Charley Ferrer, world renowned Clinical Sexologist and BDSM Expert as well as various local lifestyle practitioners.

Outtings:   Several outing are planned to local leather shops and workshop related Clubs. 

Bring a friend:  Please feel free to bring a fellow author with you.  Non-author friends can accompany you to the parties for $75. 

Certification:  Certificate of certification will be provided at the end of the workshop!
Whether you’ve been writing D/s stories for years or just picking up the Whip, once you’ve completed this workshop you will have a greater understanding of the emotional and psychological connections individuals make when engaging in this highly erotic and often misunderstood lifestyle.

This is an exclusive one-of-a-kind BDSM workshop specifically geared toward writers’ needs, to help you create believable characters. We’ll also have time to discuss your story ideas and how to make them work. The focus is on D/s relationships and activities not on the dynamics of writing in general. Please share with us any additions to the program you’d like to experience.

Note: Meals, Hotel & Transportation costs to and from workshops, airport, and club are each individual’s responsibility. We will have snacks and beverages available during the day. Any specific needs, please let us know.

Contact us at doctorcharley(at)doctorcharley(dot)com for further information.


Live with passion,

Doctor Charley…

Dr. Charley Ferrer
Clinical Sexologist, Educator
TV/Radio Host & Producer
Award Winning Author
Sex Expert for Fox News Latino
(718) 916-4124

 www.instituteofpleasure.org